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Think about the consequences of your behavior

Aggression, insult, humiliation and blame are easy. Like pressing the accelerator pedal while driving, anyone can do it, but just like driving accurately and delicately, reacting in a timely and appropriate manner in critical situations and choosing the best way to resolve conflict requires empowerment and skill. Whenever you have a problem in your married life, instead of pressing your foot on the accelerator pedal and running relentlessly to the end, wait a few moments and think about the consequences of your choice. “It was not my hand, I was nervous, I could not control myself and …” All are excuses to justify wrong choices Choose a reaction that you can defend an hour later!

Some training should be done by parents.

You can leave the teaching of language, sports, music, pottery, chess, etc. to the instructor. But teaching personal issues such as puberty, “menstruation” must be done by the mother (homogeneous parent). Do not leave these trainings to anyone. And don’t wait for him to learn from somewhere. False or extreme misinformation can cause anxiety or fear Learn for yourself how to teach.

Children's paintings reflect their inner world

From the point of view of child psychologists, painting can be a valuable resource for better understanding the child. In fact, painting reflects the inner world of the child and shows his worldview towards life. In his drawings, the child draws well his perception of the relationships in the family. In fact, the relationship of family members with each other, the role of each member and the degree of their intimacy are shown. Children’s paintings express his relationship with the environment around them. In this way, the interpretation of children’s paintings can be used to understand the needs, fears and cognitive and intelligence abilities of children. Painting for children is a means to increase the quality of their mental, emotional and mental development. Your child’s drawings have a meaning that comes to mind, which is why pediatric psychiatrists use children’s drawings as a diagnostic test. Perform a painting interpretation test at a cost of only $ 30 by ...

I do my best for my son to learn, but his father wastes all my efforts...

“I do my best for my son to learn, but his father wastes all my efforts.” “I explained to my daughter a thousand times that… but when her mother disobeys, she does not listen to me.” Children discover disagreement between parents much sooner than you think. At least be a team in front of your child. One of the consequences of parental disharmony is that their power to control the child decreases. The child says to himself: If Dad ‌ can disagree with Mom and tell her whatever he wants ‌ ‌ Why should I not? If Mom can be stubborn and ignore Dad, why not me? When Mom says it’s bad, but Dad says it is not bad, so maybe not really bad. So I can do it too.

Enjoy your child's childhood

One of the biggest problems for parents is that they become so engrossed in the role of parent that they forget to enjoy their child’s childhood. They are so worried about the new information they find that the first day of kindergarten or school becomes a nightmare for them. Talking late, talking too fast, screaming, being in the washing machine, going to a stranger or not, getting out of diapers, weaning, being energetic, writing homework, playing or not playing all become panic.

According to statistics

According to statistics One in five children knows how to use an iPad, but 48% of children do not know where they live. 73% of children can work with a mouse and only 11% can fasten their shoes, and this is a disaster.

Never imagine in the house one must be the boss

Dear mother and father Never imagine That in the house, after all, one must be the boss … These nonsense has nothing to do with a healthy life in which the issue of happiness has no basis …. No one is supposed to have power! What exists and matters is that it is love and respect, and that consultation is the basis of human relations; That’s why you have to give up power. Remember, we are in a world where obedience has no place! Cooperation and cooperation only; As a result, there is a place for cooperation. You are not going to order anyone! Children are not supposed to take orders from anyone …. You just have to teach your child to cooperate.