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The harms of ignoring babies crying

When a baby cries with prolonged stress, the baby’s brain transplants are damaged, causing the baby to secrete the hormone cortisol, which kills nerve cells in the baby. Stress refers to any external pressure other than normal life for the baby. For example, a baby who cries because of heartburn and the mother shakes him violently or the father constantly shouts to silence the baby. Or when the mother is depressed and ignores her baby’s crying for a long time, or throws her baby out of anger and fatigue. Stress can also involve intense fights at home. Baby crying with stress will cause a pattern of stressful behavior in his life. Baby crying with stress will cause a pattern of stressful behavior in his life. Stress while crying not only negatively affects the stress response system in the baby’s brain, but also has a devastating effect on the vagus nerve, which is one of the most vital nerves and maintains the body’s order of activity. Damage to this nerve in the...

If parents disagree on how to educate their children ...

When parents disagree on how to educate their children, the harm is far greater than having both parents go the wrong way in raising a child. If you can’t reach an agreement with your spouse and your spouse doesn’t reach your spouse, you should do the wrong thing for your spouse instead of going the wrong way. The harm a child sees from the misbehavior of a parent is far less than the disagreement between parents. It is as if the child’s parents were locked in two cars and each had their own way.